I have a decision-making framework known as ADAPT and you can apply it to your upcoming Christmas dinner.
Authority – Who decides where the dinner will take place?
Diligence – Do we have all the information? Who is coming? When and where is the dinner taking place?
Accountability – are we ready to make the decision and take the heat?
Policy – Did we decide this last year? Are we taking turns?
Transparency – Can we explain how the decision was made?